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| Choosing The
Perfect Marriage Proposal |
| Wedding
Planning Article by Lesley-Ann Graham |
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Now,
gentlemen, here's the drill. You must
first find the girl. No point in doing
this without the woman of your dreams.
Next you must acquire the ring, choose
well. You must ask her out, drop to one
knee and say, "Will you marry me?"
With any luck, she'll say yes.
She may say yes, but man! That is one
mechanical and boring proposal. If you
are truly in love, take the time to
make your proposal memorable. This is
a landmark moment in relationships and
needs TLC.
Yeah, you can do the simple drop to
one knee and blurt out the question
bit. Just don't forget to set the mood
first. Your lady will appreciate you
even more for taking the time to "set
the stage" if you will.
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If
your lady is the sentimental kind, why not put
together various things that will remind her of
the various events in your relationship. For example,
why not put all the stuff in a box and go through
the contents with her. You can have a "remember
when" afternoon with each of you identifying
the napkin you wrote her number on, the card from
the first bouquet of flowers you sent her, and
so on.. Make sure to carefully conceal one more
item in the box that you will bring out. Of course,
the last item is the ring. Now's the time to say
the lines you've been rehearsing.
Too tame you say? Why not take it up a step?
Take her on a tour of your favorite places.
Make it a day out. Start in your favorite restaurant,
do the things throughout the day that you enjoyed
most while getting to know each other (try to
choose the most romantic ones). How about ending
your day by recreating your first dinner date?
Pop the question after dessert.
Not inclined to go out in the foul weather?
No problem. How about creating a treasure hunt
especially for her? Start by creating a note
that may simply say something like follow the
rainbow to find gold. Next lay her a trail of
something she loves that she'll definitely follow
(in this example, how about skittles). Put a
few more notes in between that say how you feel
like, "you color my world". Of course
at the end of the trail when she opens the door,
there you are, in perfect position and saying
the loveliest phrase any women can hear.
Of course, you may just prefer to literally
ride off into the sunset with her. Take her
on a trip with to a place you've both wanted
to go. As you watch the sun set, ask her to
marry you.
It doesn't have to be anything too elaborate,
but your lady will definitely appreciate the
time and effort that you put into it. It'll
also help you avoid funny incidents like losing
the ring as she flips open her table napkin,
if you think the deed through. In the end, it's
still all about one question and the fervent
hope that she'll say yes!
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